WEEKENDS AT

THE GATHERING...

Every Sunday Night at THE GATHERING, students will experience powerful worship, fun games and a message from God’s word while hanging out with their friends! Students can also join a Group, where they strengthen their relationships with Christ and their friends, all in one night.

 

  THE GATHERING 78, is for students in 7th and 8th grade. It all starts SUNDAY NIGHTS @ 5pm. Check out our EVENT SCHEDULE BELOW. We can't wait to meet you!

 

  THE GATHERING 912, students will love the upbeat worship, easy to understand preaching, and fun games. Gathering 912 meets on SUNDAY NIGHTS @ 7pm.

PARENT RESOURCES

Want to learn more about our youth program, what we believe and teach, and how to keep up-to-date with everything going on? Click the button below to find out more.

Some of our activities require a parent consent form, like our annual Florida Spring Break trip. You can fill this form out on-line right here.

Some of our activities will have an extra cost, like our annual Florida Spring Break trip, trips to amusement/water parks, etc. You can pay for these activities on-line right here. 

CONNECT WITH THE GATHERING

Please text the number (989) 370-7553

with the words: "Please add (Your Name) I am the parent of (Your Son or Daughters Name) to Slack”

WHAT ARE MY KIDS LEARNING?

SUNDAY NIGHT TEACHING CALENDAR

MAY 15 - MAIL FROM JAIL (PHILIPPIANS STUDY)

MAY 22 -MAIL FROM JAIL (PHILIPPIANS STUDY)

MAY 29 - MAIL FROM JAIL (PHILIPPIANS STUDY)

JUNE 5 - SIFT: INTRO

JUNE 12 - SIFT: LIVE YOUR TRUTH

JUNE 19 - SIFT: SENDING POSITIVE VIBES

JUNE 26 - SIFT: THE HUSTLE

JULY 3 - SIFT: SELF LOVE

JULY 10 - SIFT: YOUR BEST LIFE NOW

JULY 17 - ME, MYSELF,  & IPHONE: SURROUNDED

JULY 24 - ME, MYSELF, & IPHONE: SHOWTIME!

JULY 31 - ME, MYSELF & IPHONE: SOCIAL MEDIA

Junior High Sunday Small Group

Sunday Morning Small Groups Starts 10:30 am in room B-16.  Navigating junior high can be a difficult time, especially for students trying to follow Jesus. Gear Up looks at common struggles of junior high students and addresses how to view those things through a biblical lens. By studying various themes and books of the Bible, students will see that their faith impacts the way they live, even now in junior high. Gear Up is designed to help students build a foundation of faith, equipping them to follow Jesus. Help students learn what it means to pursue Jesus and commit to a life with him.

High School Sunday Small Group

Sunday Morning Small Groups starts at 10:30 am in room B-12.

God has become a “back-pocket” God for many students—like a Get-Out-of-Jail-Free card, they stuff God in their back pocket until they need him. Their faith isn’t a relationship; it’s a convenience, a routine. Even though he’s not their top priority, God is still in pursuit of them. Pursuit is based on the 8 Roots of Deep Discipleship that will help your students move beyond routine into relationship with God. Relationships aren’t one-sided, and it’s no different in our relationship with God. He promises that if we draw near to him, he will draw near to us (James 4:8). 

MEET OUR E-FREE

GATHERING STUDENT LEADERS

Dave currently leads our student ministry (7th-12th grades) here at E-Free Church where he has attended since 1980. He gave his life to Jesus in 1989 after hearing Josh McDowell give a compelling reason that there was only one way to be saved. That one way was by putting faith and trust in Jesus Christ. Dave knew in 1995 that he wanted to serve Him working with students. He rededicated his life to Jesus late that summer.  

 

He has worked and volunteered in student ministries since 1995, studying youth ministry through Point Loma Nazarene.


Dave is married to his high school sweetheart Kari, and they have 5 wonderful kids.

 

Life Verses: Psalm 40: 2-4 / Romans 8: 31-39

 

 

JOIN US EVERY SUNDAY NIGHT!

We're raising up the next generation of world changers!

GATHERING 78 EVENT SCHEDULE

GATHERING 912 EVENT SCHEDULE

WELCOME TO THE GATHERING>>>

Dear Parents,

 Thanks for all you do to invest in the life of your teenager(s). You probably have felt like an uber driver this year(ready to pick them up/drop them off when they call), coach (helping them perfect their sport), tutor (working with them on homework), guidance counselor (preparing them for the future) and, sometimes, a jockey (pushing them to cross the finish line...without a whip of course!)...all wrapped up in one!

That's why, with all the insane busyness of parenting a teen, it's easy to let youth group attendance slide off the grid. It's tempting to think, "My kid's just too busy for a night of hanging out with other teenagers, playing some goofy games and hearing another Bible lesson." 

Believe me when I say, I understand the temptation. As a parent of a teenager (who has tons of homework, plays football, volleyball, cross country, band, etc and is not yet old enough to drive) my wife and I are constantly under pressure to measure every event through the lenses of what matters most. And we have decided that youth group attendance must be a priority. Although we view ourselves as the primary spiritual influence of our kids, we also believe that a strong youth ministry plays a vital role in their overall spiritual development.  Your teenager is going through an exciting time in life, but no undoubtedly one of the most tumultuous times in their entire life.  We have a dedicated and trained youth staff that is not only ready to help you along this journey, but is so incredibly excited about it. 

COMMUNICATION:

 We communicate in a few different main ways that we ask you to get connected to.

 

Facebook:  Like us on Facebook by searching gathering912  for High School and gathering 78 for Middle School.

 

Instagram:  We just have one Instagram page and you can FOLLOW US by searching gathering912

 

Slack:  We use this to communicate the most, so be sure to text me your number with the message “Please add (Your Name) I am the parent of (Your Son or Daughters Name) to Slack”  Slack is replacing REMIND for those of you familiar with that.  Can’t emphasize enough to do this. 

Here is my cell phone number:  (989) 370-7553.  Yes that is my actual number.  You can call me anytime, and I want you to feel free to do that. 

 

Your student will have a Youth Counselor that is assigned to them.  They will probably do the same thing.  We are on your team! 

We will send out a 3 month Calendar to you with our planned schedule.  It is always subject to change so that is where the other communication forms are important.

 

Our website is a great resource. 

 

Once a year or if your insurance changes, we need an updated Medical consent form on file for some of the fun events we do. 

TO REACH A GENERATION:

1.  Teenagers need models and mentors.

"O God, You have taught me from my youth, And I still declare Your wondrous deeds. And even when I am old and gray, O God, do not forsake me, Until I declare Your strength to this generation, Your power to all who are to come. "  Psalm 71:17,18

 

In the Jewish culture it wasn't just parents that poured into the younger folks. Older men poured into younger men and older women poured into younger women (Titus 2:1-8.)

 

Of course you as a parent are called to be the primary spiritual mentor of your own teenager but he/she also needs other godly adults! It's important for your son or daughter to see that this whole "Christianity thing" is more than just mom's and dad's belief system. They need to have models and mentors that reinforce all of the spiritual truth they are learning from you.

 

 

2.  Teenagers need community.

"And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching."  Hebrews 10:24,25

 

In an age of bullying, gossip, slander and hatefulness (which can destroy a teenager's self-identity), young people need other young people who can lift them up, encourage them and challenge them in all the right ways.

 

Youth group is also a place where teenagers can discover their spiritual gifting and begin to use it to serve others. This will help them have a heart to selflessly serve others for the rest of their lives!

 

 

3.  Teenagers need mission.

When Jesus challenged his most-likely teenaged disciples to "go and make disciples of all nations", he was tapping into the activist wiring of these young men. In the same way your teenager needs challenged with the mission to reach their peers with the good news of Jesus in a loving and contagious way.

 

Youth group is a place where your teenager can invite their unbelieving friends to hear the gospel. But it's also a place where they can be equipped to share the good news of Jesus with their own peers (which will help them grow in their faith!) As your youth leader continues to build a Gospel Advancing ministry the message of Jesus will advance in them and through them. This process will accelerate the discipleship process in the life of your teen in ways you could never imagine!

 

 

4.  Teenagers need theology.

"Then we will no longer be immature like children. We won’t be tossed and blown about by every wind of new teaching. We will not be influenced when people try to trick us with lies so clever they sound like the truth. Instead, we will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church."  Ephesians 4:14,15

 

Youth group is a place where teenagers can wrestle through the theology you've been teaching them (you've been teaching them right?) and have it reinforced in a powerful and personal way under the guidance of a youth leader who knows how to ask great questions and point teens to sound truth.

 

This should result in your teenagers knowing and owning their faith on a deeper level. Youth groups and small groups should be a place where teenagers can ask tough questions and even share doubts and struggles with their beliefs without fear of rebuke. Skilled youth leaders can take questioning teens back to God's Word as the source of authority and help them process through all of the Biblical truth you are praying they grasp, believe and live out.

 

Great youth groups build on the foundation that godly moms and dads have laid. And, for those teenagers who don't have believing parents, an effective youth ministry helps lay a solid foundation of Biblical truth for the rest of a teenager's life.

 

 

5.  Teenagers need a safe place to confess and confide.

"Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed."  James 5:16

 

Often teenagers who struggle with sin and temptation have nowhere to confess and confide. They feel trapped by their sins. But a healthy youth ministry can create a safe space for teenagers to open up and talk honestly about their struggles. Of course this doesn't mean they should confess every sin to everyone. But it does mean that they should have a handful of others who know their struggles and can pray for and encourage them to walk in victory over those sins.

 

When my son came back from a youth retreat last year he had this opportunity. He opened up with a handful of others about some of his struggles and then he came back and opened up to me. After he confessed his struggles he told me that he felt a thousand pound weight had dropped off his back.

 

Here's the thing, my son and I have a very strong and very open relationship. But there was something about his band of brother friends, under the leadership of a caring adult in a youth retreat type setting, that gave him the freedom to confess and confide.

 

Skilled youth leaders know how to create a context of open and honest dialogue. Teenagers who push their struggles down and never open up often struggle later on in life with addictive and destructive behavior. An effective youth ministry can help teenagers deal with these challenges now and prepare them to be victorious both now and later.

 

Yes, I know that teen life is busy. But it would be a shame if our teenagers graduated from high school and were catapulted into "the real world" without every opportunity to know, live, share and own their faith.

 

At the end of the day, our teenagers embracing and embodying the Christian faith is more important than sports and more important than academics. Getting them involved in a healthy, vibrant youth ministry is worth fitting into a crazy, busy schedule. And if it's not quite as healthy as you think it should be then why don't you volunteer and make it better?

 

There's too much at stake for us to get this wrong. So let's get it right!